Partnering with women to create change


Can you imagine what our world would be like if women could bring their full gifts to bear?

If we are blazing trails now, can you even imagine what would be possible if more of us created from a place of....freedom? Without the need to explain, apologize, justify, get permission, negotiate or twist ourselves into a pretzel at every blessed turn in the road?

My name is Lael, and I want to live in that world sooner than later.

And that, my friend, is why I created SheChanges. It's all about change powered by women—individually and collectively—to lead us toward that future.

I help women to move forward on their own terms and in their own way—boldly, unapologetically, and with a great deal of intention.

My work is designed to support badass women like you in finding the crack in the matrix, a wrinkle in time, and your very own platform 9 3/4 to help inspire and move you—and then all of us—to action. Not by becoming someone you're not—but by embodying more of who you already are. Naturally.

If you've found your way here, rest assured you're no longer alone. You're in really good company, actually.

So welcome aboard, woman. Let's ride.

Power: Pure And Simple

October 11, 2019

I have this dream, and it begins with changing the language we use as women to describe ourselves—or any people, really, outside the construct of the white male narrative we’re all living in. I have this dream about the word “empowerment” fading to obsolescence…. Instead of reading articles, seeing conferences and discovering entire organizations framed around “empowering” or “empowerment”, they would simply be about our […]

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November 12

SheWolves: A Deeper Dive

For those women who have participated in my On Being A Woman circle in the past, this one’s for you! Modeled after that circle, women will gather one evening a month during the heart of winter to do a deeper dive into the topics that live beneath the surface of the ones we touched upon in that first experience—getting at rooting, medicine, the power of stories, intersectionality and working our magic. UPDATE: This circle is now FULL UP, but please contact me to talk more if you’re interested in next year’s circle.
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November 14

On Being A Woman

This ever-popular 5-month women’s circle is back again this year to offer a small group of women the chance to gather—with themselves and each other—reflect, and fill their cups with conversation, inspiration and food for thought as we travel through the dark winter months. Perfect for the woman who is moving fast, curious to find some kindred spirits, or wants to bring more intention to how she is showing up and  moving through her life. Update: This circle is now FULL UP, but please let me know if you’d like to be on the list for next year’s circle.  More information.

November 15

The Release of My Second Book!

I’ve pulled out all the stops in my second book, and I can’t wait to put it into your hands! It’s entitled Ignite: Lighting The Leader Fire, and is all about intersecting what it means to be a leader with what it means to be a woman.  It’s a deeply personal exploration of my own story as a leader, but it’s also about pulling back the veil to look at how women create and move through change when no one is looking. This book is my fiery missive for more women to lead—on their own terms and in their own way.
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December 5 + 6

SheSpeaks: Wellspring

Tickets are NOW ON SALE for my annual storytelling event designed to celebrate the power of women’s voice, power and perspective will be coming to town again this winter—but this time with a new twist! Thursday night will feature the stories of five women, and Friday night I will be taking center stage to share some of my own stories and celebrate the release of my second book: Ignite: Lighting The Leader Fire. Tickets are available now, and will sell out in advance, so be sure to save the date, rally your people and pick yours up now!
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My Second Book Is Powered By Women

My second book, Ignite: Lighting The Leader Fire is due to be released in mid-November! A big thanks to those of you who have supported me energetically and financially on this journey—the women of SheChanges are the lifeblood of this one. It’s not too late to be a part of it—just check out my GoFundMe to find out how. Let’s DO this, woman! 

My DisruptHR Talk on Why Women Leave

In June of 2019, I spoke at DisruptHR 2.0 in Portland, Maine—a storytelling event that’s all about “the rebellious future of HR”. It was a powerhouse evening, and I was honored to take the stage as the final story of the line up that night. Click on the link below to watch the video of my talk about why women leave organizations and the “secret code” that tells you they’re on the move.  More information.

The Stories From SheSpeaks are Here!

Were you at SheSpeaks, my two-day storytelling series held in December of 2018? Don’t you wish you could hear the stories that were told on stage at SheSpeaks just ONE MORE TIME? Or were you not able to go to those two powerhouse evenings because you don’t live near Portland, Maine? For the first time ever, we have beautiful quality audio recordings of the ten speakers’ stories told over that two-day event—including my own stories—and they are all uploaded and ready for you to listen!
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Maine Women’s Magazine Interview

I was so honored to be featured in the March issue of Maine Women's Magazine on "Women Who Inspire". The writer described me as bumping up against a live wire. I'll take that.